I Have To Make A Decision And I Do Not Know What To Do?
I’m disabled because of health reason’s. Yet I took car of my parent’s Home 3.5 acres of land and I just had my doctor to tell me that I could no longer do any more extensive lawn care because of my Asthma and allergies. I have done everything from repair floors cleaning the house spot less to running the tractor and resurfacing the gravel road and mow 2 acres of grass and getting extremly sick when the summer months hit. I have no help and I need to remove myself from this situation, but I have 2 broken vehicles and I need to sale one to repair the other I have a small savings but they expect me to spend it on their house to fix their mold problem tha is making us all voilently sick. They have a lot of money and I do not receive any hand outs from them but I think they should take car of their own house. I’m stressed to the max. I feel bad but I can not keep putting myself on the back burner. While they travel and enjpoy meals out everyday and I stay home and clean or work on their house. I just turned 47 and I use to have a life. This happened to me 10 years ago. I’m tired and I want a life again and to try to work part time and have a little rental place of my own. I know I will never own anything, but I think while I have what time on this esrth I have I should be able to have peace of mind. I pay my own bills…………….. Am I wrong to want to move?
When I have other siblings that can do this and are healther than I am and wealther than I am.
November 29th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
You are not wrong to want to move, I was in a similar situation many years ago. I moved 3 hours away. It ended the dependency. If your siblings are not morons, talk to them and explain the situation. If they care about you and your parents they will pick up the slack. I eventually moved back, but the dependency is now at an acceptable level. We all won’t to be there for our parents, it’s natural. your siblings will understand……